See the puzzle shop below? I finally bought one to play myself~ I had planned so much things to do during my leave period and had looked forward to it but now I felt like I wasted my leave because of what happened.. And nice sis wanted to get me the eye supplement..It's still my dear family whom I can count on...
Don't plan, because when it didn't materialise, you'll be disappointed. And having the worst expectation is good because when things turn out a tiny wit better, you'll seriously feel so much better!!
So 2010 flew by like hawk, flying high at times and leaving you with some of the best memories while crashing low at times and dashing all big dreams u created.. I learnt many things in 2010, among them are virtue of patience, how it matters not who made you cried but who cheered you up because those are the ones whom you should really cherish, how important work-life balance is, how much I missed times with my old frens from uni, dance etc. and myself, understanding myself.
So in 2011, the first thing that I did was bathing, that ought to wash off any unhappy memories & welcome new happy things.. Hahas.. Find it amusing tt that the first thing I did after 12am is bath and then realise that it's a good idea because you'll be clean and fresh for the whole of 2011!! that's what my frens said, the first thing you do on 2011 1 Jan will let u be that for the rest of 2011~ lols
And finally, the most interesting part of this post: I learn sth interesting about MEN and WOMEN today.. Here goes~
"When a woman is in love with her man, she looks forward to spending time tog & sharing. Even if she's stressed, she still looks forward to sharing the details of her day with the man she loves. For her, talking and sharing helps to sort things out and release the burdens of the day; it simply makes her feel better."
"A woman mistakenly takes it personally and feels rejected when her husband hides away into his cave. Wrote author, "So when my hubby didn't want to talk, I would began to panic. I would worry about what I've done. Then after feeling bad for a while, I would get mad that he was rejecting me and I hadn't done anything wrong. Then I would feel hurt. It will be very difficult for me as I felt he didn't love me"
"The man understands that his cave time is hard on his wife as his wife will feel neglected and ignored. So when he's back, he will so something special to show he still cares. A woman understand that a man's need to pull away does not mean he is not commited to a r/s. Moreover, a man must show clear signals when he is out of the cave and be careful not to take forgranted and use his cave as an excuse or defense. As a man matures, he gradually needs less time in his cave and as a woman matures, she becomes more autonomous and less needy at those times when he is in his cave. By thinking this way, both will try to be understanding and things will get better."
Okay that's all for this chapter.. con't reading tmr.. so interesting..
Not sure if it applies to everyone though, I seldom heard my male friend having this cave problem.. Maybe they all mature alr.. hahas..
------it all takes the courage to believe------ ; {9:57 PM}
Likes...
Art: sketching, painting
Music: country, soft rock
Sports: skate, cycle, dance
Movies, Books: adventurous, meaningful, inspiring
Nature: Sightseeing
Making a difference
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