Today is quite a good day since start of the year~
Watched "How to train your Dragon" DVD and it's soooo nice~ Tho the storyline not v original but it's pretty funny and cute~ Met nice ppl on the bus & I sent them my blessings, learn quite a lot at dance technique today (much thanks to pz dear too - she can dance so well!!), had a good stretch at dance technique class (till my spine and legs tired - i shld have dance since younger like lil stacey as it's really good for the posture), then bought dance skirt at discount w frens, went for supper/dinner with another group of frens, then went hm (happy w my new dance skirt)~ [Sis said the blue one is nice if matched properly~ but it's pretty bright.. actually shld have bought red wine color.. cuz I got more clothes to match it.. lols~ ]
Then I completed my work - finally found the figure to tie too~ And looking forward tmr to do more things~
------it all takes the courage to believe------ ; {1:58 AM}
Embrace life's challenges for they made u stronger and wiser.
We enjoy warmth because we have been cold, we appreciate light because we've been in darkness, by the same token, we experience joy because we've known sorrow."
有结果, 才会有新的，更好的开始.
------it all takes the courage to believe------ ; {12:39 PM}
Having finally gotten down to John Gray's book, it enforced my understanding in something~
Men and Women can be sooo different, and we totally deserve to be different. There is nothing to worry about whether there is anything wrong with ourselves. And there's probably nothing wrong with your partners too. Moreover, it's not possible to find someone who can read ur mind or understand your behavior as that would mean marrying a clone of yourself. In fact, accepting and understanding differences & building on the strengths of each party, is what would make a lasting and happy r/s.
A simple difference as ...when a woman complains about a problem, she isn't necessarily blaming him and demanding a solution, instead, she is just letting go of her frustrations by talking about them...or that men may just go into their caves to solve their problems alone...a woman's sense of insecurity when things are made uncertain to her...or a man giving up when he does not understand what went wrong and how it can be fixed...All these can matter a lot over time if it remains unknown & unresolved...
Whatever it is, having hope & faith is very important in our complicated world today to keep us going. Always remember that the beauty of experience is that it always give the test first and the lesson later. So as long as you grew stronger & more mature after every experience, life is worth going through all the odds.
"Respect is not to be taken forgranted. It must be earned first through trust."
------it all takes the courage to believe------ ; {12:51 PM}
Wah having bad headache after work.. Luckily after work..
Ah headache go away.. This weekend is my last honeymoon-slacking weekend before peak starts.. Keep hearing everyone ard me saying "Honeymoon week" gg to be over.. Ya lor, it's gg to be over.. Next week will chiong like siao.. Even this weekend I wana start preparing alr so next week hope can relieve some stress..
Must eat more health supplement and exercise too.. All I can think of is sleep now.. But very bloated with dinner, supper and fruits.. need digest abit first..
& I finally bought a new fav color handbag.. Have been thinking about which handbag to get since 4 months ago.. Yay, got new handbag for new year!
New Year Resolutions: 1. Exercise more (Maybe thru dance lessons) 2. Try painting 4. Read!!! at cafe, seaside, super shiok! 5. .......Still thinking........
------it all takes the courage to believe------ ; {11:47 PM}
See the puzzle shop below? I finally bought one to play myself~ I had planned so much things to do during my leave period and had looked forward to it but now I felt like I wasted my leave because of what happened.. And nice sis wanted to get me the eye supplement..It's still my dear family whom I can count on...
Don't plan, because when it didn't materialise, you'll be disappointed. And having the worst expectation is good because when things turn out a tiny wit better, you'll seriously feel so much better!!
So 2010 flew by like hawk, flying high at times and leaving you with some of the best memories while crashing low at times and dashing all big dreams u created.. I learnt many things in 2010, among them are virtue of patience, how it matters not who made you cried but who cheered you up because those are the ones whom you should really cherish, how important work-life balance is, how much I missed times with my old frens from uni, dance etc. and myself, understanding myself.
So in 2011, the first thing that I did was bathing, that ought to wash off any unhappy memories & welcome new happy things.. Hahas.. Find it amusing tt that the first thing I did after 12am is bath and then realise that it's a good idea because you'll be clean and fresh for the whole of 2011!! that's what my frens said, the first thing you do on 2011 1 Jan will let u be that for the rest of 2011~ lols
And finally, the most interesting part of this post: I learn sth interesting about MEN and WOMEN today.. Here goes~
"When a woman is in love with her man, she looks forward to spending time tog & sharing. Even if she's stressed, she still looks forward to sharing the details of her day with the man she loves. For her, talking and sharing helps to sort things out and release the burdens of the day; it simply makes her feel better."
"A woman mistakenly takes it personally and feels rejected when her husband hides away into his cave. Wrote author, "So when my hubby didn't want to talk, I would began to panic. I would worry about what I've done. Then after feeling bad for a while, I would get mad that he was rejecting me and I hadn't done anything wrong. Then I would feel hurt. It will be very difficult for me as I felt he didn't love me"
"The man understands that his cave time is hard on his wife as his wife will feel neglected and ignored. So when he's back, he will so something special to show he still cares. A woman understand that a man's need to pull away does not mean he is not commited to a r/s. Moreover, a man must show clear signals when he is out of the cave and be careful not to take forgranted and use his cave as an excuse or defense. As a man matures, he gradually needs less time in his cave and as a woman matures, she becomes more autonomous and less needy at those times when he is in his cave. By thinking this way, both will try to be understanding and things will get better."
Okay that's all for this chapter.. con't reading tmr.. so interesting..
Not sure if it applies to everyone though, I seldom heard my male friend having this cave problem.. Maybe they all mature alr.. hahas..
------it all takes the courage to believe------ ; {9:57 PM}
Likes...
Art: sketching, painting
Music: country, soft rock
Sports: skate, cycle, dance
Movies, Books: adventurous, meaningful, inspiring
Nature: Sightseeing
Making a difference
Fantacise her life like Anything but Ordinary.
